Author Paula Stone Williams details her emotional journey to her authentic self. Williams grew up as the son of an evangelical preacher and achieved success as the CEO of a national church-planting ministry and as a respected pastoral counselor. At the age of sixty, a married father of three, Williams made the decision to transition from male to female. Although she knew that the news of her transition would shock her entire conservative evangelical community, Williams was not prepared for just how quickly her ministry cut ties with her, and how thousands of relationships she had built over the decades evaporated overnight.
Williams recounts the emotional and psychological effects of her transition on her family, and the time and space needed for them to adjust. She makes cogent observations on gender inequality, how traits such as confidence and assertiveness are perceived differently between genders, and how her years of experience were suddenly not acknowledged or respected. After basically starting over from scratch, Williams has become a pastor of a progressive Christian congregation, and a respected speaker on gender equity and LGBTQ+ advocacy.